Man Scorned

What's worse???

A man scorned or the sound of some one dragging their nails down a chalk board?

"I'd have to say a man scorned."

Yeah you might think its cute because it shows how he's in touch with his emotions, but umm what about when he continues to act in this scorned manner?



What about when his insecurities start to get the best of you?

He constantly makes mention to what his ex-girlfriends have done in the past.

"Why didn't you introduce me to your friends? You know that reminds me of my ex, when she didn't want to be with me anymore. She would act as if I wasn't even there when I seen her out with her friends. I mean I'm not trying to compare you two but I'm just saying."

"You sure you're just tired? You wanted to head back to the house awful earlier than usual. Is everything okay? My ex started acting that way right around the time I caught her cheating. She was nervous that she was going to get caught trying to balance me and the other dude. I know you're not her but this situation is bring up ill feelings."

"Now I know you don't want to hear about my ex anymore but I really want to get this off of my chest. Lately you've been very busy and I cant help but feel that you might be loosing interest in me. She was acting the same way and I just don't want our relationship to end up like my last one."

Scorned, insecure, crazy or whatever you want to call it, its just flat out annoying. No one wants to keep hearing about your damn ex. We get it okay. You're not over her. Perhaps you should chill out for a little bit and work on your little situation.

Ladies if you run into a man scorned, do yourself a favor and RUN........

Love,

Demetrius

He's Just Not That Into You...

So many points to cover...Should I cover them all??


Oh what the hell--Lets do it!




So they practically depicted an image that its better to not be married than to be married. WTH! That's whats wrong with relationships today. No one values marriage so no one cares to grow towards it. We do everything and I mean everything that looks like a marriage but we don't go through with the ceremony to make it official. In the movie there were two couples that stood out: One that was married and the man ended up cheating on his wife with a woman that he found irresistible on all levels. The other couple was dating for seven years but broke up because the man didn't want to get married. When the woman finally stood her ground and said I'm leaving you because you don't want to marry me, he didn't stop her. Thank goodness for the happy ending where he redeemed himself and asked her to marry him. My point is, they painted a picture that the woman who shacked up with a man for SEVEN years ended up having the happy ending versus the woman who got married. I'm sure some women are now saying if I just be patient then it can happen. Well yes patience is a very good attribute to have but that doesn't make doing everything that a marriage entails before the actual ceremony a good thing. Hell why should he marry you. The way a man thinks (LOL) is if you're giving me all these things now than does a little piece of paper matter. Well its beyond a piece of paper its confirmation. Its a commitment. You act differently when there is a commitment involved; You invest more; You care more: You pamper it a little more and etc.



Next Point...

Women being so damn Open--Available--Easy!



Call me old school but damn let him chase you an itsy-bit.


(I say an itsy-bit but according to my poll the men said they like an easy catch lol just find your middle ground)



As a matter of fact I think its safe to say just do you. Chill out and let nature take its course. Make yourself available but don't be all desperate. These men claim they like it easy but I think some of them might have the getting to know you stage confused with the sexing you stage; so I'm going to be the voice for the men. In watching my male friends and even with my own experiences I've found that men like it when they actually take the time to get to know you. They tend to let the woman who they got to know very quickly, go very quickly. I think because it appears that the woman is moving too fast.



N-e-who like I said earlier


Now to my last point which are from the words of one of the characters.

"We're so focused on our happy endings that we can't tell the signs
that are in front of our faces"

No need for me to comment on that. It speaks for itself. Every man is not your damn husband as soon as you meet him...Geez! lol

Oh sorry. One last comment. Its a BIG one too... I'm going to write it in red so you don't miss it.

Stop Taking Advice From All Your Girlfriends When They Are Hopelessly Single Too!!!

Love,

Demetrius

The Perfect Woman

"Too hot will get you no where but alone and perhaps used"

"Too cold will get you no where but alone"



Two totally different types of women, with two different paths yet the same ending ALONE



So what is a perfect woman exactly? Perhaps its best to play the middle....

Love,

Demetrius